Thursday, March 24, 2011

Another Fashion Fairy Tale . . . .

Last Saturday, Miss Hope celebrated her birthday in Missouri with Tinker Bell and Friends.  This Saturday, her big sister, Miss Faith, celebrates her birthday with Barbie in Paris.  Their mom had seen what I did for Miss Claire in January and asked me if I would do the same and then some.  There is not a lot of Barbie stuff out there!!!  We decided to make a banner using extra large cupcake pics.  Mom will string them together and place them in a place on honor at the birthday party on Saturday.





It was fun to come up with all the different fashion ideas for this banner.  I hope it shines at the party and Miss Faith is happy with it!  We also did cupcake pics like the ones I had made earlier.  I don't know where the picture is of the other side of the poodle cupcake pic.  It had a number 6 on it - since that is the birthday they are celebrating.


I appreciate their mom for contacting me and letting me help make these special days a little extra special!  Happy Birthday, Miss Faith!! I hope you shine in your special day!

Saturday, March 19, 2011

With Just a Little Pixie Dust . . . .

Somewhere in Missouri, a little girl named Hope is celebrating her fourth birthday with Tinker Bell and Friends.  I was privileged to help her sweet mama out by making some of the decorations for the party.  I loved working on these and hope Miss Hope has had a wonderful party today!
These are some of the cupcake pics I made for the party.  On the back on these were the ones
with Tink's whole body.
Tink cupcake pics
The other cupcake pics were made with Hope's name on one side accented with a
little flower.
Tink's face was the highlight of the other side of these cupcake pics.
I also made larger copies of all 5 fairies, but am having trouble getting that picture up. Maybe I can get it later.  I hope Hope has a wonderful birthday with Tink and her friends!!!!

Friday, March 18, 2011

Happy St. Patrick's Day - Henderson Style!

 These two CRAZY boys want to wish you a very Happy
St. Patrick's Day!!!

How did we celebrate?  What? We celebrated St. Patrick's Day this year - usually just wear the green and leave it at that.  Thanks to our amazing Henderson Arts Council we celebrated in TRUE small town fashion - Arts in the Alley style!!!  The alleys around one block of the city were closed and the celebration began.  Friends of all ages gathered for the first Arts in the Alley of the new year . . .

We enjoyed yummy hot dogs and hamburgers grilled to perfection!! Along with conversation with friends who we see each day and friends we hadn't see in a while (yes, that is possible in a small town), dinner was wonderful!



After eating, we walked the alley to see local artist's vendors - a little of everything.  While we walked, talked and shopped, we listened to live music in the corner.  The kids enjoyed just being out in the beautiful weather, being with friends, and seeing the great artist work.  After walking, talking and shopping, we had to stop at our small town's own Italian gelato shop for amazing Italian (even though it was an Irish holiday) dessert.
 Carter enjoyed Cookies N Cream

 LB enjoyed Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough

and we all enjoyed being with the Allen family for the night!

The kids had a great time and have already asked when we can go back! 
We will have to wait for April, kids, but we will be back!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Playing the Waiting Game

My God does know what I need.  Even when I don't know what I need - HE does.  Why?

Because I am HIS child.  
He love me.  
He cares for me.  
He watches over me.  
He provides for me.  
He shelters me.

As I am writing this, the future is a bit unclear for us.  I chose to spend some time this afternoon in God's word to find the peace, wisdom, confidence, and strength that I need at this time.  Our ladies' Bible class is studying Cassandra Martin's book Echoing His Heartbeat: The Life of David.  When I was sick, I got behind and I felt like I should use this afternoon to catch up.  The lesson I was working on was about Saul from 1 Samuel 13:5-14.  This is the story where the Israelites are about to battle the Philistines and they are waiting on Samuel to offer a sacrifice.  Samuel is later than they want him to be, so Saul takes it upon himself to offer the sacrifice.  Just as he is finishing up, Samuel arrives and calls him out on it.  Specifically, he says, "You have done foolishly."  Because of acting foolishly while waiting, Saul has the kingdom taken away from his family and is given to a man who is described as "a man after His (Lord's) own heart."  All of this was taken away from Saul because he refused to wait on God's timing.  

My family has been waiting on God's timing for awhile now.  It has not been easy.  It has not been a smooth road.  It has surely not been an easy road.  I have tried to surrender to God, to give it over to Him, but I have failed at times.  Mrs. Martin says,

Waiting aligns us with His timing and proclaims our desire to live under 
His authority.  When we wait, we relinquish control of our circumstances,
hearts and future steps to God.  In waiting, we honor His goodness,
rest in His love and depend on His power.

I pray that God has not found me foolish during this time.  I pray that I have and will always "align" myself to His timing and His authority.  I know I will have to wait on Him, but He has it all under control.  He knows what I need and He blesses me daily.  I pray my life is one that brings glory to Him while I wait on and for Him.

Therefore the Lord will wait,
that He may be gracious to you;
And therefore He will be exalted,
that He may have mercy on you.
For the Lord is a God of justice; 
Blessed are all those who wait for Him.
- Isaiah 30:18 NKJV

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

It's March Madness, BABY!!!!!!

It's one of our favorite times of the year!!!! 

MARCH MADNESS, BABY!!
(insert Dick Vitale voice right here)

Our family loves sports - watching, playing, anything to do with it.  Damon and I have always filled out brackets each year when the madness begins, and, last year, we got the kids in on it.  I am proud to say that the kids did a much better job filling in their "boxes" (as Carter called them) this year.  

Nobody was picked because "They like the name of the team."  
Nobody was picked because "I know someone with that last name!"  
Nobody was picked because of the color of the uniform.

Last year, Damon won the Family Challenge.  I cooked his favorite meal for him at some point after I got over the heartbreak that he won.  The kids and I are still in shock that he won when he picked Kansas to win it all and they were out in the second round - RIDICULOUS!!!  We all picked Duke to win it all - AND THEY DID!!! Therefore we are changing the rules a little this year - adding more points to the rounds as you get closer to the championship game.  We can't have that again, can we?  

So this year, we have filled out our brackets again and are competing for the supper of their choice (I hope I win because I am NOT cooking!!!).  Let's see what we have . . . .

THE WELCH FAMILY CHALLENGE


I guess we will start with me - my picture is first.  (Please disregard the MESS around me - I was finishing up a big birthday order for someone - post on that coming soon, and I was couponing - is that a word?)  Thanks to dear LB for taking the picture!

I really believe that this year it is anyone's tournament to win.  I was not going to pick Duke to win it all this year, but looking at the brackets - WHY NOT?  They have just as good as a chance as the next guy.

MY UPSETS - 

In the first round, I have (11) Marquette taking out (6) Xavier, (10) Georgia taking out (7) Washington, (12) Memphis taking out (5) Arizona, (10) Penn State taking out (7) Temple, (10) Florida State taking out (7) Texas A&M - lesser of 2 evils there, and (10) Michigan State taking out (7) UCLA.

My elite 8 are (1) Ohio State, (3) Syracuse, (1) Duke, (3) UConn, (4) Louisville, (6) Georgetown, (5) Kansas State and (2) Florida.

My Final Four are (3) Syracuse, (1) Duke, (4) Louisville, and (2) Florida.

My Championship game is (1) Duke vs (2) Florida with, of course, Duke winning it all.

Overall, I am not happy with my bracket.  I really don't think I am going to win.  I think this will be a great tournament because there is not just one strong team.  We shall see!!!!


LB is super excited about March Madness this year - as long as Duke wins!! Have I raised her right or what!!! I even bought her a Texas basketball shirt and she informed she only cheers for them in football!!

LB's UPSETS - 

(10) Georgia taking out (7) Washington, (12) Memphis taking out (7) Arizona, (11) Missouri taking out (6) Cincinnati, (12) Richmond) taking out (7) Vanderbilt, (12) Utah State taking out (5) Kansas State - I think she has heard Damon say more than once that a 12 always takes out a 5!!!!, and (11) Gonzaga taking out (6) St. John's.

LB's Final Four are (2) UNC, (1) Duke - I pray this does not happen. I cannot take another game with them this year!, (1) Kansas, and (3) BYU.

Her championship is (1) Duke and (1) Kansas with Duke winning!!!


Damon is defending champion and is ready to defend - although he feels the same way about his bracket as I do!!  Damon is sportin' his Texas gear, but is sad to say he has Duke beating them later on - do I teach my family right or what!!

DAMON'S UPSETS - 

(11) Marquette taking out (6) Xavier, (12) Memphis taking out (5) Arizona - he loves the 12/5 upsets!, (11) Missouri taking out (6) Cincinnati, and (10) Michigan State over (7) UCLA.This is the reason he is not thrilled with his bracket.

Damon's Final Four are (3) Syracuse, (1) Duke, (1) Kansas and (5) Kansas State.

His championship is (1) Duke and (1) Kansas with Duke winning!


Carter would say I am saving the best for last.  He has declared more than once that he IS going to win this year.  (He also declared that Damon's bracket was "pathetic.")  He has been waiting so long to fill out the brackets and took great pride in filling his out this year.  We shall see . . . .

CARTER'S UPSETS - 

(10) Georgia taking out (7) Washington, (11) Missouri taking out (6) Cincinnati, (10) Penn State taking out (7) Temple, (10) Florida State taking out (7) Texas A&M, and (10) Michigan State taking out (7) UCLA.

Carter's Final Four are (1) Ohio State, (1) Duke, (3) Purdue (WHAT?), and (4) Wisconsin (again, WHAT?)

His championship game has (1) Duke and (3) Purdue in it with Duke winning!!  

So, needless to say, things should be interesting in our house for the next few weeks!  We LOVE every minute of it - watching the games, "trash"talking, highlighting the winners, counting points and deciding what we are going to choose for our championship dinner!!!  Good luck to you and yours this March as well!

GO DUKE!

Monday, March 14, 2011

The "What's" and "How's" of Hospitality

I am sorry I have been away and have not finished the hospitality series.  It has taken longer to get over my sickness than I had planned.  The past week in the afternoons have been spent resting/napping aka not on the computer.  I do plan on finishing, Lord willing, this week and the drawing will still go on until I finish this series.

Here is the worksheet for this part of the hospitality series. You can use this blog post and the ones in the next few days to help you fill in the blanks.  If you missed the first lesson, it is here. These are the same handouts I used in the class when I taught.


WHAT IS HOSPITALITY?
Hospitality is the friendly and generous reception and entertainment of guests, visitors and strangers. 

It is what you do 
with what you have 
for people you meet!

Many people come up with excuses for not showing hospitality.
 
Lydia could have offered many excuses:
1.      She was a business woman so she had a busy schedule.
2.     She had just met Paul and Silas – they were strangers.
3.     She could have feared for her safety

What are our excuses?  "My house is not clean"  Mrs. Debbie shared this story with me for the class and I thought it was great and very applicable!!!!

The most hospitable friend I've ever known often invited people to her house after church on Sunday nights. One Sunday night John and I were the first to arrive and I asked what could I do to help. She told me to go into the living room and kick anything that was in the floor under the couch! She never cared that her house wasn't "company ready." She just wanted you to come, relax and enjoy being together.

My house just is not big enough for a lot of people.  My Aunt RoRo shared two of her favorite sayings from people in Scotland, where they have taken numerous college students on campaigns.

"There is always room for one more!"
 "Our walls are elastic."

Hospitality is something we can all do.  My friend, Jennifer, is living in China at the moment with her husband and three children.  I thought she summed it up in a great way on her blog.
A friend of mine, Becky, is teaching a lesson on hospitality and asked for some stories, recipes or thoughts on the subject.  This is really something I have thought a lot about.  Hospitality is one of those things that I CAN do.  I am not a great leader, I don't sing well, and I am not even a great conversation starter.  However, I can be hospitable.  






I think that being hospitable could also be defined as being welcoming.  Some of the details are different, but it is the same in most cultures. It is often the small things that really matter.  The small things are the details that are different in other cultures.  We pay attention to what has been done to us, and keep an open mind.  


                 
HOW CAN WE BE HOSPITABLE?

It is not just about opening your home – it is opening your heart to someone.
Your attitude is what is important. 

Be hospitable to one another without grumbling.
1 Peter 4:9

No matter what you do – visit, open home, call, go on an outing – pray for the people you interact with because while hospitality does meet physical needs; it more importantly meets emotional and spiritual needs.

Go to this link, to enter the drawing that will be done at the end of the series.  Be sure to check it out anyways because I forgot to add a few links from my friends - sorry, girls!!!!

Friday, March 4, 2011

Meeting Lydia

You can go here to receive a printable worksheet that accompanies this post.  You can fill in the worksheet from this post and using your Bible.


Open your Bibles to Acts 16:6.  This is where we are going to begin.  Paul is on his second missionary journey at this point in Acts.  

Now when they had gone through Phrygia and the region of Galatia, 
they were forbidden by the Holy Spirit to preach the word in Asia.

He was in Galatia and really wants to go to Asia, but God has said no to this plan. 

Acts 16:7 - 

After they had come to Mysia, they tried to go into Bithynia
but the Spirit did not permit them.

He tries to go to Bithynia, but, again, God says no.

Acts 16:8-9 – Paul is in Troas.  

So passing by Mysia, they came down to Troas.
And a vision appeared to Paul in the night.
A man from Macedonia stood and pleaded with him saying, 
"Come over to Macedonia and help us."

That night in Troas, he gets a vision from a man of Macedonia.  This man pleads with him to come to Macedonia to help them.

Acts 16:10 – 

Now after he had seen the vision, immediately, we sought to go to 
Macedonia, concluding that the Lord had called us to 
preach the gospel to them.

I love how it says "IMMEDIATELY" they went to Macedonia to preach the gospel to them.  There was no whining, arguing, complaining - they went! “They” now becomes “we” – so we assume that Luke is with him on this part of the journey since he is the author of Acts.  Therefore, what we are about to read is a FIRST hand account!

Acts 16:11-12 – 

Therefore, sailing from Troas, we ran a straight course to Samothrace, 
and the next day came to Neapolis, and from there to Philippi, 
which is the foremost city of that part of Macedonia, a colony. 

Paul sails from Troas and goes to Philippi which is the foremost colony of Macedonia.  We need to learn a little about the city of Philippi so we better understand what is going on in this account.

1.      Named for Phillip II – Alexander the Great’s father – it’s founder
2.     Greek city
3.     Gold bearing mountains were to the north of the city.
4.     Was a prosperous Roman colony on the Egnatian Way – linking eastern providences to Rome
5.     Many Roman soldiers lived there
6.     There were not enough Jews to have a synagogue – have to have 10 reliable males; River Gangites was were the “place of prayer” was in the city

Acts 16:13-15a – 

And on the Sabbath day we went out of the city to the riverside,
where prayer was customarily made, and we sat down
and spoke to the women who met there.
Now a certain woman named Lydia heard us.  She was a seller 
of purple from the city of Thyatira, who worshipped God.
Then the Lord opened her heart to heed the things spoken by Paul.
And when she and her household were baptized,  . . . .

On the Sabbath day, they went to the river to pray and there they met Lydia.  Who is Lydia?  There are some things we need to know about her as well.

1.     She was a lady. (vs. 13)
2.     She worshipped God. (vs. 13)
3.     She was a successful businesswoman selling purple. (vs. 14; Proverbs 31:13)
4.     She was from Thyatira in Asia Minor. (vs. 14; Rev. 2:18-19)
5.     She was a Gentile. (vs. 14)
6.     God opened her heart to hear what Paul had to say. (vs. 1 4)
7.     She was head of her household. (vs. 15)
8.     She was hospitable. (vs. 15)
9.     She was first convert in Europe. (vs. 15)

Acts 16:15b – 

 . . . she begged us saying, "If you have judged me to be faithful
to the Lord, come to my house and stay."  So she persuaded us.

She urged them to stay with her - begged them; some versions say “constrained."  This word “constrained” – in Greek means she was met with hesitation and objection – she had to urge them to stay. The same word is found in Luke 24:29 – when the two men on the road to Emmaus urged Jesus to stay with them.

But they constrained Him saying,
"Abide with us, for it is toward evening and the day is far spent."
And he went in to stay with them.

On a personal note, when I think about hospitality, I think of Uncle Charles and Aunt Marydel who insisted that we live with them until our furniture arrived. Uncle Charles said that he couldn't sleep at night if he knew we were sleeping in sleeping bags on the floor at our house while they had empty beds.  Uncle Charles "constrained" Daddy to let them do this.  We stayed with them 10 days while we waited for our items to come from Tennessee, San Antonio and Korea.  They became our "family" there.

The story does not end there when it comes to Lydia.
Acts 16:16-18 – Paul and Silas drive a demon out of a slave girl; her owners are not happy about it

Acts 16:19-24 – Paul and Silas are thrown in jail

Acts 16:25-37 – Paul and Silas are thrown in jail; this is where they meet the Philippian jailer and convert his house

Acts 16:38-40 – Paul and Silas are “let go” because they are Roman citizens. 

So they went out of the prison and entered the house of Lydia,
and when they had seen the brethern, they encouraged them and departed.

From jail they go back to Lydia’s house to stay and encourage the church there before they left

There are many lessons we can learn from Lydia.  The one we are going to look at specifically is her hospitality and how we can learn hospitality from her.  Many people believe that the church in Philippi met at Lydia's house.  This seemed to be a logical place to many showing us that Lydia had always been a hospitable person to the people of Philippi.  The church at Philippi must have been a huge source of encouragement to Paul while he was in prison.  Later on in the study, we are going to look at the book of Philippians to see what we can learn from this hospitable and encouraging congregation.

Come back tomorrow for a look at what hospitality is as well as what we can do to begin making hospitality a priority in our lives.  Don't forget the giveaway as well!!!!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Hospitality Helps

I am so thankful to all of you who helped me prepare for my lesson on hospitality last week.  I pleaded for wonderful recipes, ideas, stories, etc. and wound up with so many treasures! Thank you so much for sharing your ideas and thoughts with all of us.  The class I taught has been so kind in dishing out compliments galore on the lesson and the things you shared.  I wanted to share three of the blogs who wrote about hospitality on their blog.  Please visit each one - they are each a treat and a treasure!

Jennifer - Hospitality

Kristen - Pretty Sweet - Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookie Muffin Recipe

Kristen - Pretty Sweet: Heavenly-Minded - The Art of Hospitality

Kimberly - Go Into All The World - I am Appalled

Brittany - The Lew Crew - New Recipes

I gained a lot from each of these ladies and shared something from each blog entry in my class.  With that being said, Jennifer, from the Hardin Clan, is my winner for the plea entry!!!!!!  YAY, Jennifer!!! I wish you could all know sweet Jennifer.   Jennifer, you will be receiving a box of "goodies" in the mail as soon as I am closer to 100%!!!!!  Be looking for a message to see if there are any "must haves" at this point!  Thanks to all who helped me!!

If your name was not drawn this time, don't you fear!!!!!!  We are going to have ANOTHER drawing at the end of this Hospitality feature next Friday.  What can you do to enter yourself in this drawing?

1.  Become a follower of this blog and leave a comment HERE saying you follow me.

2.  Become a follower of Blessings for Bible School Teachers and leave a comment HERE saying you follow that.

2.  Become a fan on facebook and leave a comment HERE saying you now "like" Slipping Through My Fingers and Blessings for Bible School Teachers on facebook.  One entry for each website "liking." ( I tried to link it to here, but can't do that right now.  If you search for the title of the blog, you will find it under websites.)

3.  Mention it on your blog with a link back to THIS POST and leave a comment HERE saying you did this.

4.  You can even get an extra entry by writing your own hospitality post and comment HERE saying you did this. (Kristen and Jennifer - you don't have to do another one - leave a comment saying you have done this.)

Please do a separate comment for each thing you do - makes it easier to "draw."  Also, if you already follow and are a fan on facebook - go ahead and leave your comment(s) saying so!  Come back tomorrow ready to learn about a lovely lady who was the inspiration for this whole hospitality thing!!!

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

What I Have Been Doing With Myself . . . .

This time last week I was so excited about so many things I was going to be doing on my blog.  I was going to announce the winner of my hospitality plea - that is coming btw.  I was going to share the amazing blessing I had been given of studying the lady Lydia from Acts 16 and hospitality - that is still coming too btw.  

However,  Tuesday night/Wednesday morning I was hit with what later would be referred to as viral bronchitis.  However, I still taught Bible class Wednesday night and went straight to bed afterwards.  

Thursday and Friday I was hit with something else - later to be determined as a viral sinus infection on top of the viral bronchitis.  I was NONE too happy about this because Pioneer Woman was coming to Memphis and I WAS SUPPOSE TO GO!!!!!!  However, my friends, family and I knew I was too sick when I finally sent Bridget a text saying I could not make it.  I was most upset later because Marlboro Man was with her!!!!!  

My friends got pictures - I got green with envy.  

What else did I get?  A prescription Saturday morning for TamiFlu - yep!!!!!  Flu B 

YES, I had the shot! and YES, I still got the flu on top of the viral sinus infection on top of the viral bronchitis.  (I sound like my own version of the This is the House that Jack Built.)  So, for the past 3 1/2 days this is all I have seen - my faithful dog, Chip, at the foot of my bed.


Good Ole' Chip stayed right there by my feet - unless the kids or Damon was home.
Good Ole' Chip checked on me each time I coughed or sneezed - until Sunday when I do believe he was just tired of the whole thing (and he wasn't the only one).
Good Ole' Chip was right there beside me through it all - except Monday morning when the bad storms came and he went under my bed to hide.

What in the world would I have done if it had not been for this dog?

Thankfully, I am on the mend now.  Still not a work because I can't talk and can't stop coughing.  I am so thankful for all the friends and family who have stepped in to help take the kids away and brought good "flu" food in for me.  Damon has been a dear and I think has learned a lot about morning schedules and homework time as well!!!  Here's hoping tomorrow is even better because I will be back to talk about the Hospitality plea and share what I learned from my study!   

Our Very Own Superman

You may think we call him Carter.
However, these days we have been having to call him

Dwight "Superman" Howard

Yes, I know, he is wearing a Vince Carter jersey, but it does 
not stop this little one's imagination!
He even went to the FHU basketball game dressed like this!
I'm just proud he is active and imaginative . . . 


and thanks to ebay - a Dwight Howard jersey is in the mail
AS WE SPEAK! 
Won't he be surprised!
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